Captain James T Kirk said in Star Trek V; “Damn it, Bones, you’re a doctor. You know that pain and guilt can’t be taken away with a wave of a magic wand. They’re the things we carry with us, the things that make us who we are. If we lose them, we lose ourselves. I don’t want my pain taken away! I need my pain!”
I think people are too weak in standing by their own decisions. If someone wrongs you, you’re disappointed, angry, pissed off. Time doesn’t change that. If someone betrays or hurts you time doesn’t change that. Only actions, events, things, can change that. I say that if you made the decision that someone deserves to be hated, despised, at some point. Don’t forget. Don’t let them think that in a few days, weeks, months or years, that things have changed. The event still happened. They still wronged you. Fuck them I say. There are over 6.5 billion people on this planet and we’re only here for a limited time. Leave the sons of bitches to go their own merry way (hopefully driving straight into a tree a long way away from you) and spend time with those who value your company and bring joy into your life.
And I’m not talking about people who steal your parking spot. Or those morons who pay for movie tickets with a credit card in the line in front of you. I’m talking about those you really hate. Those who if they stepped out into the street in front of your moving car you’d really have to consider whether to swerve or keep on driving. And if you did decide to swerve, it would be because you didn’t want to have to wash your car afterwards. I have a list of three people whom are on my ‘list’. I think three over thirty years is not a bad size.
Although if Neko pees on my chair again she may end up being the 4th…